“In the long dusks of summer we walked the suburban streets through scents of maple and cut grass, waiting for something to happen.” ―Steven Millhauser, Dangerous Laughter
How many time did we try to do this?
Summer is the hottest season, when all our feelings, passions, thoughts come up...
I come from the Sea side, I usually saw very stressed people coming for 10 days of "Summer Break", it sounds like an Holy Time to them.
After few hours, they even look different: smiles are wider and coming more often, speaking mode changes, it sounds more natural, clothes are shorts and easy-going... classic shoes leave the place to flip-flop, shirt are wide open....everything seems to be easier....
When they leave...wow...it is not so pleasant... they are sad, teenagers usually cry for their broken hearts, they were looking for love, they found it and now they leave it...99% forever...
We, local people, are used to this...nothing happens, we are over excited during Summer and we are sad during long Winter season....we are Season addicted....like a tree...green and bright under the sun...red and spoiled during the Winter....
How can we avoid this Summer Sadness?
1) Holiday will end:
Why don't you relax and try to be real?
It is your time, but don't play yourself around...life is life.
2) You are lucky:
Spending your vacation time where you want, it is a beautiful thing.
Is that enough for you to feel lucky?
3) Learn something new:
It sounds very stressful, why should you spend time in learning something new, instead of enjoying beautiful party and great company?
Ehy... you are free to do what you wanna!!!
If you really wanna improve yourself and feel satisfied, you should then at least know the history of the place, population, why not language??
You will remember it in few years, maybe telling it to your sons!!
(I traveled a lot and that's a great thing to do!! Believe me!!).
4) Do what you like the most:
This is your time!!! Remember it!!! Never forget this rule!!!
If you like climbing, cycling, swimming, partying, hen do it!!!
Don't date people you don't like just to let your friends smile...don't do it!!